I知 33 years old. Single, own two small business. Recently found out I知 5 weeks pregnant, according to 5 home pregnancy tests. I alway said an abortion was out of the question unless I was raped. So that is not an option, I truly though I couldn稚 conceive. This was also an action that was clearly both our faults, we had a little to much to drink and were not safe. How irresponsible we both were. I知 still in major denial. Im afraid to tell anyone, main reason is because if something goes wrong. It almost seems like it would be best to wait until 12 weeks in case something happens. We are both single, never been married and neither have children.
Funny how life works. This is not how i see having a family but i couldn稚 have asked for a better person to be the father. (if he decides to be in the babies life or not) It seems like timing is right to have a child. I work from home most of the time and the baby and I will be ok financially. The advice I知 looking for is how do I tell my friend who I see daily and works with me that I知 pregnant? I知 not looking for help but I feel he needs to know. My main concern is I will lose him in my life. Do I wait until after official word from doctor? Or tell him right away?